Monday, November 23, 2009

Free Postcards (sarcasm) Really? "...please where can I buy a unicorn?"

An anonymous comment today on the postcard project stated the cynicism we are all so used to with simply: “...please where can I buy a unicorn?” Meaning, ‘yeah right, where is the section for unicorn and flying pigs?’

Does a comment like that hurt when last week I sent out 59 postcards to 4 continents where you can see here besides the ones I have up to six people’s gifts of postcards to the project? Yes, it hurts because I hear a person who is hurting. I wish they would have requested a postcard instead. And I wish that if they requested on and it didn’t come, just let me know, I will send another – and keep sending them until they get through.
In a time when it seems to be bad news, bad economy and so much anger and frustration why am I fiddling around with sending postcards? Because of comments like the one above, where people get hurt or so tired of trying and having the door slammed in their face, they don’t want to try any more from fear of being hurt. I don’t want to hurt them, but to help them feel that maybe not everything is bad, and not all people are stereotypes and with the vast amount of spam, not all blogs or people are out to try and get you.

I admit that due to my neuropathy and other medical condition the number of postcards I can do in a week is less, 59 instead of 71 or 35 instead of 48. But I am still going on, and sending out a couple hundred a month, now somewhere around 3,200-3,300 postcards sent. And I don’t do it alone. My sister and my partner help me, so many people over the last year have posted everything from postcards to stickers to stamps to help. And it all does help go back out there. Because there is where the people are who are having a gray day and could use a nice flower, or Hawaiian girl to cheer them up.
I sent out Halloween postcards, because who can resist a ‘spooky’ Hello Kitty? And I get to use all the fun stamps like the ‘King of New Orleans’ raising his Zombie army! Bwahahaha! It is fun and it is supposed to be, both for me and for those who receive the postcards.

Everyone who sends something to me at the address below:

Elizabeth McClung
P.O. Box 2560
Port Angeles, WA
98362

For the donations that arrive I try to make sure to send at least one post card back to them (if the return address can be read), because they are part of the family now, as it were. For children here, I am using some of my stickers but some stickers that have been donated by various individuals (thank you so much!).

For those who write back, I send postcards and letters back. To engage, to start a dialogue and get to know someone is a great joy, a great opportunity. I have been given this chance to get to know so many people. And if I don’t hear from others I hope having something to look at, to touch, to feel, to read, even as simple as a postcard they ‘get it is NOT spam, it is caring, it is love because love is an action.
I sticker them, and put transfers and get excited thinking of the people who will like this postcard or that one. I hear from readers and people who get postcards that they now send postcards to their own circle. That they are the hub of letting people know they care in a tactile way. No, it isn’t 20,000 new jobs, or the same sort of stresses we have, over money, over health, over family, the worries we have are not all solved by me. But I can make you feel a little less lonely, because I care, and I hope it shows, in a clumsy way, in the postcards I send. I can give you a dash of color and fun.

And yes, I can send you a postcard with a unicorn.

So just send your name and address and that you want a unicorn, or a rainbow, or whatever might make you happy to me at mpshiel at hotmail.com. It isn’t a religion, it isn’t a list compiled for anything other than caring and sending free things.

14 comments:

wendryn said...

You do a great thing here - it's made us and a lot of people I know very happy.

Thank you!

*hugs*

Oh, and I got a few things that I think you might like - I'll be sending them in the next day or so.

Rachael said...

Ah,so the answer to 'where can I buy a unicorn?' is 'you can't, but Elizabeth will send you one, with love!' Beautiful....

Fresh Hell, Texas said...

I check in on this blog and everytime I do, every single time, it makes my heart sing and reminds me of the good that quietly goes on all around me.

I have never sent in a request for a postcard because I am terrible at asking strangers for things. But I'm going to send a letter asking for a postcard now. I want to join in this community and I'm honored for the invitation to do so.

Anonymous said...

Hey this is jessica, the navy girl! I love your postcards and they always brighten my day, so thank you!

Elizabeth McClung said...

Jessica: Yah! I will keep sending them then, if you let me know if you are out at sea, I have a package waiting for when you are needing some bit of home. Just let me know. Until I will keep sending the postcards, I hope one came this week, or recently.

Wendryn: I look forward to seeing what comes, have a great thanksgiving, I am really glad you like the postcards.

Fresh Hell Texas: I would love for you to request a postcard, please consider it a favor from you to me, as I get to send out a postcard, and make it as interesting as I can for you. Thanks.

chandlerguera said...

I think what you're doing is interesting, caring, and a bit crazy (in a good way). It is a simple, selfless act like this that can uplift a person's otherwise mundane or crappy day. Bravo!

p!nkroma said...

I just received the Hawaii postcard you sent me. It surely made my day. I love it! Thanks a lot!!! c",)

--Miriam

catsmum said...

Dear Elizabeth
just wanted to let you know that you have created a little trickle on effect - I blogged about how David doesn't ever get mail and how he loves getting your postcards, and now someone who saw that post is sending him one from Zimbabwe.
hugz from downunder
Susan

Wendy T said...

Hahaha, I have that same "paradise" postcard with the Hawaii maiden's butt. Good times! And so authentic. Because I'm sure that as you were hauling yourself up to the edge of the volcano or down to the tide pools there were, scattered here and there like fallen leaves or discarded gum wrappers, scantily clad Hawaiian maidens, looking seductively over their shoulders, with the word "Paradise" floating over their heads, in space. :)

RWgirl said...

I actually found my way to this blog because of the unicorn comment. This morning I had the same comment waiting for moderation on my blog, so I googled it to see if it was a new meme and how I should take it.

Your blog was the second hit on google, and I'm so glad I clicked on the link. This is really a wonderful thing you are doing and it really made my day to read some of the entries here. I can't wait until the end of the day when I have a chance to read more.

Cara said...

your post card idea is really neat.

Just wanted to note, though, that the 'unicorn comment' is common around the blog world. The first time I thought the same thing as you (that they were poking fun), but the second time I did a search, and it's pretty common. So don't feel bad!

Elizabeth McClung said...

Cara: Thanks, I found that out after I did the blog, someone is having a very trippy week. Please do request a postcard, I would love to send you one.

RWGirl: Thanks, I would love to send you a postcard too. But then, you may have noticed I like sending postcards - but I think of it as, 'Avoid the post Xmas blues, request your postcard today!'

Chandlerguera: Thanks - your comment lifted my day. (psst, please let me send you a postcard?)

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